Your Time is NOW!!

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Hey y’all its that time of year where everyone is scurrying around buying the whole high street like the shops will never open again. It is also the time of year where people are about to stuff their faces and say they will work it off in the new year. It is also the time of year where the “2014 is my year” statements are made (how so..did you buy it?). Also the I am going to join the gym 1st January and back to the sofa on 1st February situation is about to happen!!

Now I am no way perfect or here to preach but what I am here to do is point out a few thangs. I won’t lie I have been subject to the new years resolutions crap but that was way back when….

Basically you are alive and living NOW so why not try to do something NOW, everyday you wake up you have the chance to change the game tomorrow is a brand new day!

If 2013 wasn’t a very good year for you then why would you wait till 2014 to make it better? End the year on a good note and say you know what 2013 wasn’t what I had hoped but I can learnt from from it and use it. Go into a new day with a positive head don’t put off your happiness till another time!

We are in no way perfect but how do we become better if you never make that change!!


Random Vlog #4 – Weight Loss & Life Update!


Hey y’all got a little video on my weight loss journey and a few bits on life in 2013.

At the beginning of the year changes happened to me and I also decided to make some changes of my own. I am very proud of myself in how far I have come, there is still a long way to go but that is what makes it all exciting!

Whatever it is that you decide to do in life be persistent, passionate, consistent and just keep on going don’t give up!!!

The hustle, the grind and hard work never stops!!






1. The quality or condition of being spontaneous.
2. Spontaneous behavior, impulse, or movement.

Do you just get up and go or do you plan everything down to the last drop?!

Well if your anything like me you don’t just DO THINGS (apart from exercise 🙂 ) you will want to know who when what and why before you even consider it.

Does everything need to be planned beforehand and require of lot of thought before it can happen.
Yes some things are simply impulse like buying that lipstick you saw in that bright pink or deciding to go somewhere at last-minute.
Spontaneous movement is very refreshing from time to time, if you have that 9 to 5 you go to the gym for an hour and always cook dinner at 7pm. Then surely you need something that isn’t the norm and requires some sort of sudden movement.
Being spontaneous enables you to experience things you may not have otherwise.
See things you have never seen and do things you never did!
So take that little trip, go for dinner or just go off by yourself!
Life is mapped out but it is up to you to choose which way to go and why not have some fun whilst doing it!

Butterflies Don’t Mean Love!!


Okay so I saw this film BAGGAGE CLAIM last week Friday you know your typical rom com and it happened to be a black one and it got me thinking.  If you intend to watch this film then stop reading NOW!!

The film is about a woman who is yet to find a husband her mother always pressures her and she feels like she will never get married. She has a best friend who is male from school days they get on so well but she goes on a quest to find a man in time for sister engagement party. She goes above and beyond to find him to end up with the person right under her nose.

Okay I think I can stop there you get the drift.

 Yes that typical situation!!

Now when you watch these mushy films I think it not a case of getting all caught up in the moment or thinking the same will or won’t happen in real life. It is more of a case that the film having messages hidden within the situations that definitely apply to REAL LIFE!! 

1. She ends up with the guy who lives across the hall – So this can happen in real life your too busy looking for perfect or an unrealistic representation of the right man who you fail to see what is right in front of you.

2. She was searching for this man that didn’t exist – This fairytale man doesn’t exist but the RIGHT man who will treat you like a queen and look after you does!!

3. Her mother putting pressure on her because she isn’t married yet – Don’t live your life how others tell you to, do what you feel happy with and what works for you. You decide when the time is right and also the place.

These are a few points that I got from the film as I wasn’t about to get all dreamy and wait for my knight in shining armour 🙂

I like to take my experiences and turn them into something constructive!!

BUTTERFLIES DON’T MEAN LOVE although that tingling feeling can be an indicator that you fancy, have feelings or are lusting for. In my opinion it doesn’t mean that you love that person.

Love isn’t easy it is about what you would do for that person despite their faults and mistakes.

Love doesn’t have a time or a place.

My thoughts on love change due to things I see, experience and encounter!

But I do know that true love never dies, it just is hidden well or just isn’t allowed to roam free!