Life’s Changes!!!

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Sometimes life changes with no warning and most of the time we automatically think it is the worst thing ever and that our world is going to end (that is if it is a bad situation). But sometimes it is simply life’s way of telling or making you change your direction or situation. Lets face it we are human and can be stuck in our ways, routines and habits. So if we are in a situation that isn’t right for us how do we get out if we don’t take action ourselves. Life tends to do it for you it picks you up and drops you into the UNKNOWN. Why might you ask well how else will we learn or experience new things if we get stuck in convenience and repetitive situations.


The unknown can be quite a minor thing or quite drastic but either way it’s just as alien. What is important is to assess the situation and see how you can move forward. It does depend on your situation if you lose your job maybe that isn’t where you are supposed be. You may of just gained a certain skill that you can use later in a future position. So work with that don’t waste time try to be somewhere you are supposed and want to be. If it’s a break up yes you can feel like your arm dropped off, but as sad and hurtful as it is you obviously wasn’t meant to be with that person. You was meant to experience loving and caring for someone to prepare you for the real deal maybe. Concentrate on yourself don’t put yourself down try to find yourself and be a better and stronger person.


Basically both examples are showing you that you take experience and skills from each for you to grown and learn. So that you can be a better or even different person in your future encounters.

Change can feel good or bad but change is what builds us and takes us to the next level.

I know it can hurt or be total bliss but embrace change because it happening for a reason.

You might not always get what you expected but you always get experience, strength and knowledge!!



Broken Senses!!


One day I woke up and nothing was the same the room was spinning and I didn’t know where I was or who I was. Thoughts of the anger from the night before the throbbing and blocked feeling. What is happening? why is this happening? if only this didn’t happen?

The call for help to find some answers, but then being made to feel you had to be half dead to be helped or even support you. Being cast out with no solution just a piece of paper in exchange for a temporary fix. To be honest there is no such thing as a quick fix there is always the after math. The waiting, the helpless feeling, the unwanted release but yet it needed to happen embarrassing as it was. You reach back to where you was before with some idea but no idea of what is still in store for you. Time passes which feels like forever and a day, when will this end when will you be back to what you were before. You realise that you never go back, you simply move forward but think about the before. The mental part will always be faster than the action, because to think it requires less effort.

The experience, the situation, the never being the same again makes you realise you never even gave losing it a second thought. Never knowing what it would be like to lose something that was precious and just be gone is the blink of an eye. You can never turn back time but you can learn from it, adapt and be grateful that it could have been even worse.

Even though it may not be entirely clear what happened to me, the main point I was trying to make is things happen in life that you can not change.

You have to just learn from it adapt and move on!

The amount of effort you spend wishing and wanting you could be putting that energy into your future being.

The things that have happened try to accept them

The things that haven’t already happened make them HAPPEN!!